Archive for May, 2008

A Man Knows Not His Time…

Saturday, May 31st, 2008

scan0004 Call me weird, but I love reading the OBITUARIES section of the newspaper.  While perusing our local paper recently, I discovered that Irvine Robbins of Baskin-Robbins ice cream fame, went on to his reward earlier this month.  You might even have had a double scoop of Irvine’s genius over the holiday weekend! (our absolute favorites are Jamoca Almond Fudge and Peanut Butter Chocolate – I burned out on the Pralines and Cream years ago)  Irvine grew up in Tacoma, Washington, scooping cones in his family’s ice cream store.  But he had a bigger vision, and after serving in the armed forces, he and his brother-in-law-turned-business-partner Burton Baskin, invested themselves into Irvine’s crazy idea that “somebody ought to open a store that sold nothing but ice cream and do it in an outstanding way.”  We all know the end of the story, but did you know that his son, John, rejected the family business and in 1987 wrote Diet for a New America, a book critical of the meat and dairy industries?  See what you can learn in the OBITS section?!

The same day I also read an interesting piece about the passing of a high profile waitress from our city, whose diligence, charm, humor and lively personality  paid off handsomely, but whose private life was apparently a mess.  Sad.

Upon perusing the OBITS, I’m most often left with the sobering reality of eternity.  “Did they know Jesus?”  “Did anyone tell them the truth?”  “Would they do it the same way all over again?”  “Who’s next to go?” are questions that swim in my head.

Then it gets real personal.  “What will I be remembered for?”  “Were my days spent wisely?”  “Did I fulfill my destiny?” 

The average person’s life contains about 25,500 days on this planet, but of course we’re all believing for more! (and everyone said, “AMEN!”)  It’s uncomfortable to ponder such things, and most Americans probably don’t.  Reading the Obituaries reminds me of what’s true, what’s not, what’s important, what’s not, what life is really all about and what my lifestyle priorities should be.  May our lives be lived worthy of our Savior’s ultimate sacrifice.

WHAT DO YOU GET WHEN 2 BLONDES ARE DOING MATH AT 5:00 A.M.???

Thursday, May 29th, 2008

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……………ROBBED!

Okay, so you got the special announcement about party favors, and 3 for 30 on the 30th and you’re thinking, “why would I buy 3 books for $30.00 ($10.00 per book includes shipping) when I can buy 2, 2-for-1 in May Specials and get 4 books for $35.98 ($8.99 per book includes shipping) ?!?!?!?

And you begin to….

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IT’S 4 FOR $30.00 ON THE 30TH!!!

EVERYBODY WINS ON FRIDAY: The Too-Good-To-Be-True No…Ordinary….May Celebration Party Favors!

Wednesday, May 28th, 2008

What’s a party without treats?!  It’s 3 FOR 30 ON THE 30th!

You’re probably jumping up and down right now!  Yes, that’s right, for ONE DAY ONLY you can get 3 for 30 on the 30th!  3 copies of No Ordinary Child: Unlocking the Leader Within Your Child, for $30.00 INCLUDING SHIPPING all day, this Friday, May 30th, to the USA and Canada.  Hurry on over – time is ticking!

(This special price will be run on www.denisemira.com for 24 hours on May the 30th, adhering to Pacific Daylight Time)

"Never in the field of human conflict was so much owed, by so many, to so few. "

Wednesday, May 28th, 2008

-Winston Churchill – Tribute to the Royal Air Force, House of Commons, 20 August 1940.

How appropriate a quote for us in America.  It’s come to mind so much, after wrapping up a 3-day weekend culminating with our national holiday on Monday called Memorial Day, a day of remembrance for those who have died in our nation’s service.  A formal day to reflect on those whose blood was spilled to purchase my liberty to do, basically, whatever I wanted to do, wherever I wanted to do it, all weekend long.  Whenever I’m feeling the heat of some ‘persecution’, some light and momentary affliction, and all is not as I wish it could be, with the sun shining down on me, I remind myself:  There is no gun to my head and I’m not yet hiding from government oppression and I owe it to a relatively small number of men and women who paid the ultimate price for my freedom.  That’s a sobering realization, isn’t it? 

How did you spend your weekend?  Some of you took Friday and made it a 4-day weekend…that’s such a treat!  I imagine lots of you were working on the landscaping, painting the trim, maybe grilling some chicken with friends.  Our weekend was peaceful, but constant, as we’re in the middle of many projects and I’m the sort of person who always seems to be spinning a lot of plates.  Our boys were occupied with friends, plans and activities out-of-town, which left me lots of time to spoil my husband and also to catch up on study and crossing some major items off my to-do list  that have been lingering far too long.  We Americans are truly privileged people. 

"Never in the field of human conflict was so much owed, by so many, to so few. "

Wednesday, May 28th, 2008

-Winston Churchill – Tribute to the Royal Air Force, House of Commons, 20 August 1940.

How appropriate a quote for us in America.  It’s come to mind so much, after wrapping up a 3-day weekend culminating with our national holiday on Monday called Memorial Day, a day of remembrance for those who have died in our nation’s service.  A formal day to reflect on those whose blood was spilled to purchase my liberty to do, basically, whatever I wanted to do, wherever I wanted to do it, all weekend long.  Whenever I’m feeling the heat of some ‘persecution’, some light and momentary affliction, and all is not as I wish it could be, with the sun shining down on me, I remind myself:  There is no gun to my head and I’m not yet hiding from government oppression and I owe it to a relatively small number of men and women who paid the ultimate price for my freedom.  That’s a sobering realization, isn’t it? 

How did you spend your weekend?  Some of you took Friday and made it a 4-day weekend…that’s such a treat!  I imagine lots of you were working on the landscaping, painting the trim, maybe grilling some chicken with friends.  Our weekend was peaceful, but constant, as we’re in the middle of many projects and I’m the sort of person who always seems to be spinning a lot of plates.  Our boys were occupied with friends, plans and activities out-of-town, which left me lots of time to spoil my husband and also to catch up on study and crossing some major items off my to-do list  that have been lingering far too long.  We Americans are truly privileged people. 

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Sunday, May 25th, 2008

Calling All Canadians!

Sunday, May 25th, 2008

http://www.htk.ca/orion

Your orders have been pouring in and it’s been pretty crazy ’round here during our NO ORDINARY BIG MAY CELEBRATION!  Wouldn’t ya’ know – Murphy’s Law some say – here in the U.S.A. our shipping costs have just been raised by the United States Postal Service…again.

Well we’ve decided the U.S.P.S. is not gonna spoil our party.  So, for the next 7 days while we wrap up all the May festivites ’round here at www.denisemira.com and .blog every book going to Canada will be charged a flat rate of two dollars and fifty cents.  Yep, just $2.50.  That means you’ll have enough money left over to hit Tim Hortons for coffee and a snack :)

So…don’t just sit there with your jaw droppin’ – get those orders in…time is ticking!

(For those Canadian friends who have ordered recently and were charged more than $2.50 per book, it was due to the fact that your order was expedited, which is priced significantly higher by USPS than First Class) 

 

 

 

When Mom-teacher-wife hits the wall.

Saturday, May 24th, 2008

HPIM0032 I was reminded of how each of us home schooling moms struggle, when I received this email from ‘Marie’.  Earlier in the week she had requested help to navigate the web site in order to complete a transaction for a book order, and when it didn’t come through the system, we emailed her to make sure she had received our reply.  She began her email with…

It’s my fault, I haven’t been back on the site, the Lord reminded me today, I really am looking forward to reading the book (No Ordinary Child), I am in a terrible rut with parenting and home schooling, I have home schooled for 10 years and we have 9 children 6 boys and 3 girls ages 18 – 6 months.  In Christ, Marie

I could feel Marie’s heavy burden as I read these brief words.  I wanted to reach through cyberspace and give her the BIGGEST hug, make her a cup of tea and clean her kitchen.  I don’t even know what state she lives in!  I wanted to  reassure her that there is hope.  It weighed on me as I buzzed about that day.  I woke up the next day and replied:

Dearest Marie,

As I’m reading your email, I’m filled with God’s love for you and your family.  I’m so sorry you’re struggling – we’ve all struggled and at times, intensely, as we’ve endeavored to be all we must be – or all we THINK we must be as we walk through our days with our precious children.  At times I’ve needed to ‘call it a year’ and set ’school’ aside for now.  Sometimes, when push has come to shove, I have to re-focus and adjust my priorities for a stretch, while I find my own peace in Him, with my kids’ behaviors and scheduling, and with bringing more practical order (cleaning out stuff, straightening closets, tossing clutter) in our home.  Not to mention, taking time to give my husband the loving attention he deserves – he can be sorely overlooked while I’m trying so hard to wear so many hats.  What do academics really do, if everything else is askew?

Marie, Jesus loves you today and I commend His love and grace to you!  May your burdens become lighter and may wisdom and clarity come for you and yours.

In His great love, Denise

(Marie’s response) Hi, Thank you for your encouragement, (a right word spoken at the right time) the Lord is encouraging me to continue on, but I just can’t see how? That seems so silly for me to not just trust Him. But by faith I will follow.  In Christ, Marie

Friends, we’ve all been there.  You may have something specific to share with Marie that will make a difference for her in this trying time.  Perhaps some practical advice, words of comfort or wisdom.  I invite you to share what comes to mind.  I know your words will bring encouragement to everyone who pops in to read.

(P.S.  Marie gave me permission to share her story with you.)

The Almighty Birthday

Thursday, May 22nd, 2008

 039Stop the whole wide WORLD, it’s Junior’s birthday!  That’s the message we’re getting here in America, anyway.  Yes, I love parties.  Who doesn’t?  And I adore my children.  Who doesn’t?  And I recently had the unexpected pleasure of spending the entire weekend hanging around my son Benjamin while we were in town for a ministry time, which happened to land on his 22nd birthday, as well you know.  :)

But, I’m really quite tired of birthday obsession and I’ve been wanting to chat about it for awhile.  Especially as it relates to our children.  This might sound bad, but I haven’t been in town for some of my children’s birthdays. Recently I was in Boise, Idaho, with my husband’s blessing, ministering all weekend long while my Seth Daniel turned 13. I chatted to Seth in advance to reassure him of my love and devotion, and reminded him of how God always brings him such happy surprises when it’s necessary for me to be gone on his special day. I had a couple of gifts wrapped and ready so Daddy would be prepared for THE BIG DAY. Wouldn’t you know it – a precious family from our local church invited him to their son’s birthday party and ended up spoiling my Seth and honoring him unbelievably. I couldn’t have planned that, now, could I?! Our Father in heaven knows just what needs to happen, if we could only trust him more. How many times over the years, have I heard a mother proclaim, “oh, no, never, no we couldn’t, absolutely not – we wouldn’t, we shan’t for it’s JUNIOR’S BIRTHDAY!  As if suddenly the earth must stop orbiting and time should stand still while we all:

-buy extravagant birthday gifts and coordinating plates and napkins and decorations and $5.00 cards and $6.00 bags and $40.00 cakes and…

-cancel all kingdom activities for the entire day since, after all, it’s a birthday…a BIRTHDAY - did you hear me????

-over plan, over spend and over hassle due to Junior’s BIG DAY!

Let’s not allow Hallmark, Chucky Cheese and Build-An-Expensive-Bear run our already chaotic, expense-filled lives.

STOP the insanity.  Inhale.  Exhale.  DON’T feel you must make ‘party bags’ for already over-indulged children who have way too much already.  They add up real quick $$$ and never quite satisfy. The kids get to come to your house, eat cake and play.  That’s enough.  Save your money.  Take them all to the park with a ball and jump ropes and water balloons and let ‘em run wild.  Keep it simple.  Your child can feel just as much love for half the price!

Now I don’t want to bring you into bondage by making you feel guilty over your creative party planning.  I want you to be truly FREE in Christ.  I’m grateful for the freedom I have to love my sons; to, yes, even lavishly express my love with extravagant gifts at the appropriate times…but if I’m feeling PRESSURE to create an event; if I feel huge expectations I must fulfill…then it’s probably not the way I should go. 

If something inside you is saying, “yes, this sounds right.  I need to scale back and relax on this birthday party thing-it’s gone too far,” then take practical steps that you’re comfortable with.  That’s often how change comes to our lives: step-by-step, little-by-little as God gives us grace.  We move from the ‘real’ that we’re living, into the ‘ideal’ that God has for us.  Perhaps you’ve got some victories in this area that you’d like to share with us.  We’re all ears (under the party hats!)

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Just landed…

Tuesday, May 20th, 2008

It’s good to be home after 3 days of writing and study in Seattle, then a whirlwind weekend of ministry in Tacoma, Washington at Impact Church – we’re home and busy unpacking.    Below, Gregory and I are enjoying a pleasant and peaceful ride on a huge commuter ferry to the city of Seattle where we enjoyed spending the day with all of our precious children on our second born’s 22nd birthday.  Seattle was experiencing an absolute HEAT WAVE…I’ve actually come home with a slight sunburn.  However, it was raining as we headed for home.  Wow.  What a superb time it was in the Emerald City.  More to come – stay tuned!

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