Archive for December, 2009

New Year’s Eve ALREADY!

Thursday, December 31st, 2009

We’ve had a full house since a week ago today – in the happy blur of the last 7 days I haven’t had a moment to pop in on the blog, so I thought I’d take a moment to say “hi” this morning and fill you in on all the fun.

(Here, the girls and I are building a gingerbread house, with Heather as the lead architect and designer.)

Our kids and all their stuff are stuffed in every corner of the house, along with Christmas goodies galore, Starbuck’s coffee and latte’s brewing in the DeLonghi, cell phones beeping, laptops on laps, movies and sports and video games playing and massive, tasty meals…beginning with our traditional Italian feast of stuffed manicotti (here’s Seth doing the hard part of filling the shells) spaghetti and meatballs, Italian Sausages, Levi’s homemade Caesar salad (it’s a tedious task, but how we love this dressing-you can see he’s busy at it here) lamb roast and garlic mashed potatoes, ham, yams and scalloped potatoes and today’s finale’ lunch will consist of turkey and all the ‘trimmings’ as they say.

It’s been a full week (in every way) but such a privilege to have everyone together again. We stole one extra day with those traveling by car due to snow storms predicted in the mountain passes, so today is a bonus! I will be sure to drink it in and grab lots of hugs and try not to cry when we part in the wee hours of the New Year.

Speaking of January 1st, 2010, I’m longing for more of everything God and everything good! I love turning the last page of my 2009 calendar, although I’ll miss this photo of my beautiful red bird in the snow greeting me at my desk each day. Isn’t he just stunning?


My heart is always filled with expectancy and hope as I anticipate all the happy surprises God holds in His hand for the upcoming 12 months. This year our first granddaughter will arrive – life will never be the same. WOW. All of our sons are pursuing various dreams and visions and goals – our firstborn will graduate from college in the summer and that will be a real milestone and time of celebration. Transition is in the air and that’s always an adventure. I’ve got some fun events coming up for parents and some pretty tight writing deadlines to fulfill :-o (help me, Jesus!)

I know whatever victories we achieve, without a strong foundation of God’s Word, His Holy Spirit and buckets of grace – it’s pretty meaningless. In Him we truly ‘live and move and have our being’ and ‘our lives are ever hid with Christ in God’. That’s the truth. I want to be filled and ready for whatever tasks the Lord has for me this year. It’s not always easy because these are sober days, filled with uncertainty at many levels in our world, and yet our most certain Rock is Christ the Lord.

At the moment I’m finding myself in Proverbs and Luke. If you’re struggling with consuming large portions of God’s Word, start small with the first few Proverbs. So cleansing, filling and encouraging! Jesus’ words in Luke are like a bath to our lives.

Whatever book of the Bible you prefer to read, just READ and marinate and saturate yourself in it. It is LIFE.

I wish for your new year to be filled with Him, which will be a Happy New Year, indeed.

A really special Christmas gift…

Friday, December 25th, 2009

…was looking forward to finding out if our grand baby would be a boy or girl. This darling couple is 5 months along now and they decided to let everyone know this week whether it was gonna be a blue or a pink celebration…

We waited in breathless anticipation. :-D  This is our first grandchild, so you can imagine what fun we’re having and how special every little detail is. The phone rang. Drumroll, please…

Pink, it is! The announcement brought shock and awe to this male-dominated family (even our dogs have been male)… and loads of joy! I found the perfect pink stocking and stuffed it full of fun little things – pink, of course. A boy would have brought every ounce the joy, because babies are such blessings, period. And I mean it – but I can’t deny that walking the girls’ aisle at Target is a brand-new, delightful adventure!

I hope you’re having a Merry Christmas!

Christmas FOOD! Oh, yeah…

Thursday, December 24th, 2009

Popper is in the kitchen with Mommer, cooking up our traditional Italian feast for the fam! We were chatting about the holiday fare and deciding if Italian would be on the menu. I said “if the boys arrive and there’s no garlic in the air, their jaws will drop to their knees and Christmas just won’t be the same.” LOUD LAUGHTER! Here’s my man making the meatballs…

IMG_0652IMG_0658Frying up those spicy Italian sausages…IMG_0648My messy corner where the ‘please-Lord-let-it-be-perfect’ sauce begins!

IMG_0659Gently simmering now with the meatballs and sausage…mmmm! Visions of bolognese dancing in our heads!

Never fear – I have my hairnet on as you can see below and I lint-brushed hubby and I before food preparation so no ‘fly-aways’ in Mama Mira’s sauce…

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Yes, it’s true, I do possess some obsessive eccentricities :oops: But you can feel good about eating when the cook promises never to lick her fingers or double dip a tasting spoon, right?! (No cat hair either, I promise!)

Oh, I forgot…

Wednesday, December 23rd, 2009

As we strolled through the piano gallery where the concert was held, the boys were admiring the rows of high-end pianos for sale. They were aching to try them out. We saw this one…IMG_2274And took a closer look at the pricetag…

priceGULP. :roll:


A Christmas Solo Piano Concert Date.

Wednesday, December 23rd, 2009

I had the pleasure of attending a Scott D. Davis solo piano concert this week with my two sons. They are passionate musicians and have admired Scott’s abilities on the piano from a distance. What a treat to find he was playing here in our little city! We arrived very early to get a good seat – REALLY EARLY as you can see from the empty room….ha! Never fear, Mom’s cell phone is close at hand for entertaining bored children…

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IMG_0617Here you can see Scott attacking the keys with a fervor! After entertaining us for almost 2 hours with a diverse menu of tunes and entertaining dialogue, he took time to visit with my sons. They connected about music, speaking a language I don’t know very well! I just love how God kisses our kids’ lives with special treats like this.

IMG_0620Merry Christmas to my boys from the Lord Jesus!

Christmas cups for morning coffee…

Tuesday, December 22nd, 2009

IMG_0643…and afternoon coffee, and evening tea :lol: . This is a simple, inexpensive tradition you might like to begin. You can find piles of cheery clearance holiday cups just after Christmas and wrap them up in tissue or bubble wrap for next year. (Discount stores carry them even now at super reasonable prices. I picked up a set of 4 for $7.99 this month. )We pull ours out each year along with all the decorations around Thanksgiving and enjoy our festive mugs each morning when we turn on the coffee pot and grind the beans. They go bye-bye along with all the ornaments, etc., right about New Year’s Day.

A holiday idea you might enjoy!

OVERWHELMED.

Tuesday, December 22nd, 2009

Yep. I was feelin’ it. Life is flying about me like clothes in a tumble dryer and my to-do lists are growing longer and stretching across pieces of odd-shaped papers grabbed from here, pulled from there. Stress was pounding in my chest so I had to TAKE CHARGE!

I began to list neatly on ONE page every single thing I needed to get done this week from making a grocery list based on the meal list still needing to be completed, to deciding which sheets will go on which bed for our house guests, to cleaning the ceiling fans, toilets and sweeping the front porch. Then, I organized it into four lists: 1-meal list, 2-grocery list, 3-cleaning list, 4-errands to run.

Then, I sent my two teen-agers, shopping lists in hand…

IMG_0641 to do ALL the holiday food shopping at two different stores, God bless ‘em!

They came home 3 hours and a few phone calls later (Momma they don’t have sweet-hot mustard…Momma they don’t have summer sausage…), exhausted (welcome to my world, boys!) and victorious. I was so proud of them. One of them had called me in a panic to make sure there was enough money in his bank account to get through the check-out line without embarrassment (been there, done that before!).

Mission accomplished!

IMG_0634IMG_0638IMG_0635Tomorrow they attack the cleaning list! Thank God for teen-agers!

Christmas programs…’tis the season!

Monday, December 21st, 2009

I’ll bet you’ve been to at least ONE Christmas program this month! (am I right?) My fifth-born was very involved in his school-related presentation last week and I giggled through the whole thing (as I balanced the video camera as steadily as possible to capture his brilliant moments and 25 minutes of fame!)

By the way, the new FLIP video camera is amazing. It’s a tiny little thing (can fit in your hand or attach to a tripod) that has 2 hours of memory, downloads right to your home computer, can easily be shared by email or posted to the web in moments and uses AA batteries if the rechargeable FLIP battery runs out. You can even turn the video into single photos right on your computer. The sound and picture are amazing and it even has a little zoom feature. Oh, you can also plug it into your TV and watch what you taped on the big screen. It’s extremely affordable – ($150.00ish) at Costco and cheaper if they’re running a coupon special, or a bit more at electronic superstores like Best Buy. There are other brands besides FLIP, that just happens to be the one I bought and I’m loving it. (Google it for more info…)

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Anyhoo…back to the Big Night. The skits, complete with missed lines and assorted gaffes along with some off-pitch singing are what make a kid’s Christmas program what it is. In actual fact though, I have to say, this choir pulled off a couple of really beautiful songs that night. I found myself closing my eyes and seriously finding the sweetness of God’s presence…

IMG_3002A holiday treat, indeed.

Stop this train…

Friday, December 18th, 2009

With just 6 more sleeps ’til Christmas Eve (yippee!), I’m sure you’re engaged in all the pre-Christmas activities that need doing – just like me. I’m not a completely-consumed-with-materialistic ‘Christmas-musts’ shopping monster, but I am a MOM and I love surprises and yummy food and clean sheets and a cozy home, ready for the fam. And…I tend not to stop to relax as much as I probably should because I love to busy myself with being productive :-D . Can you relate?!?!

I popped into an Ace hardware store the other day. “Ace is the place with the helpful hardware man,” if you haven’t seen the ad and perhaps it’s not in your region or country, but I’m sure you have a place like this. It’s not a big-box, impersonal sort-of place, but more of an old-fashioned stop where you’ll always find a large number of grey-haired shoppers. I think they like Ace because it’s a little bit of yesterday with up-to-the-date handyman stuff along with hands-on help and a little bit of everything else.

IMG_2256You know you’re a real grown-up girl when you get excited just to take 5 long and uninterrupted minutes to browse their unbelievable cleaning supply aisle. (sick, I know!) Like ‘gourmet treats’ for Mrs. Clean. Every odd- and-end hard-to-find cleaning item and tool all the other stores often don’t carry. I know you know what I’m talkin’ about.

Then! This jaw-dropping scene stopped me dead in my tracks. It was almost a holy moment as I stared, pondering the fantasy wonderland before my eyes, conjuring up memories of simpler times in years gone by.

I even turned to an older gentlemen with a handle-bar mustache standing next to me, apparently sensing the same enchanted aura about us…IMG_2254IMG_2250“Don’tcha just love these?!” I asked excitedly.

“Oh, yeah!” He replied.

We stood there silently, just looking.

I was thinking how, back in the day, my five little boys would have gone nuts watching that gigantic, festive, mini-train-city scene.

Time marches on like a locomotive, garnering speed and momentum as we grow older. Drink in these moments with your little ones.

Reminds me of one of my favorite songs by John Mayer. I always cry when I hear him sing this:

“Stop this train
I want to get off and go home again
I can’t take the speed it’s moving in
I know I can’t but honestly won’t someone stop this train

So scared of getting older
I’m only good at being young
So I play the numbers game to find a way to say that life has just begun
Had a talk with my old man
Said help me understand
He said turn 68, you’ll renegotiate
Don’t stop this train
Don’t for a minute change the place you’re in
Don’t think I couldn’t ever understand
I tried my hand
John, honestly we’ll never stop this train

Stop this train
I want to get off and go home again
I can’t take the speed it’s moving in
I know I can’t but honestly won’t someone stop this train.”

This is a movie worth seeing.

Sunday, December 13th, 2009

So I’d read all about The Blind Side in, yes, WORLD magazine. But to be honest, I wasn’t convinced.

I’ve got five sons and the youngest two are 14 and 17. They’ve probably seen enough ‘Hallmark movies’ and saccharin-sweet-sentimental flicks in their young lives to immunize them against ever seeing another. (Until they have little ones of their own :) of course!)

And to be quite honest, I wasn’t feelin’ it for another one of those, either. I have so appreciated finding those little gems along the way as we’ve been raising our sons. Squeaky-clean feel-good movies that stress character, biblical values and good guys who win. But, how many happy-ending-sports films can one take? As in, how much chocolate can a person eat?! And I love chocolate. Perhaps I sound cynical, but I think it’s just that I’m sort of bored with that genre’. Just tellin’ it like it is. I did not run to the theatre on opening day.blindsideI figured we could rent it when it came out. I was torn because I wanted to be supportive of folks wanting to do a good thing, but after all, theatre tickets are pricey so we’re selective about what we see out as a family. We were kind of wanting to see a festive, holiday film.

THEN…I happened to read a review by some columnist on CNN online and his experience of seeing The Blind Side. Hmm. Surprising. The same day hubby saw that it hit #1 at the box office. That got our attention and convinced us to go. We grabbed some dinner (with coupons) with our boys and hit the matinee to save some more money.

It’s difficult to sum up. Not boring. Not entirely predictable. Not sugar sweet. Peppery and exciting. Very well cast. Great fodder for family conversation. Yes, tear-jerker for hubby and I. I wanna go again!

That crazy movie was heavily on my mind for days after we saw it. It moved me. I journaled about it. It angered me, blessed me, cheered me and made me cry. That’s not bad for $7.75.

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